For The Love of Real Love

How many times can we say I love you? Not enough times to get people to understand the true meaning of love. Love is not the material things we have or give to others. Love is not just a hug or kiss for your loved one's. Love is not having relations with your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend. Love is not a gift on Valentine's Day. Love is not gazing into you mates eyes or reading each others mind. Love is not a horse carriage ride through the Downtown Chicago area. Love is not sailing on Lake Michigan under the moonlight. Love is not dressing in sexy clothes to impress your mate. Love is not giving up you virginity. Love is not marrying for his or her money. Love it not abusive. Love is not cursing out your mate & the kids. Love is not telling your best friend or friends about your mate. Love is not dating a married man or woman. Love is not leaving your wife or husband for another man or woman. Love is not being a bad mother or father. Love is not being controlling...etc.

But I believe real love is; Patient & kind, love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand it's own way. Love is not irritable, and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged. It is never glad about injustice, but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never give up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

The gift that come from love is: Forgiveness, patience, kindness, love for truth, Love for justice, Love for the best in a person, loyalty at any cost, belief in a person no matter what.

Love has no room for Jealousy, envy, pride, haughty spirit, selfishness, rudeness, demand for one's own way, irritability, and grudges.

There you have it my take on what love is even though; Love is like a rumor everybody talks about it, but people aren't totally sure how to use it.

ShoYoLuv,