Yes, I Am My Sister's Keeper

I want to close this 2009 year acknowledging an organization of women called Yes,I Am My Sister's Keeper. From what I've leaned is that this group of women teaches on self-love and empowerment to women of all colors, race and ethics. I was asked to befriend a young lady by the name of Chloe from my Face book page. Chloe seems to be a very inspiring and motivated get down to the business type of lady. It was unfortunate that she was recently out of touch for awhile due to a computer problem, but she's back and more knowledgeable then ever.... And so after a week or so I was then asked to befriend Yes, I Am My Sister's Keeper which I was honored to except. This organization of women seems to inspire and amaze me even more with their daily encouraging quotes and comments. So here I am writing a blog about it.

It brings joy to my heart to see that a group of women can come together to make a difference in each others lives. Yes, I Am My Sister's Keeper seeks to make a change in the way we as women should live, make decisions, set goals, stay focused and being productive. They also inspire us as women to always take some me time as well as teaching us on how to know who you are as a woman. They encourage us to get to know ourselves through self-love, peace, joy, and strength.

If you don't know this organization: Yes, I Am MY Sister's Keeper. Get to know them by joining them on Face book or log on to the website: I Am My Sister's Keeper.Com. They will bless you and enrich your life.... Question: Are you your sister's keeper?

Thanks to Chloe for introducing me to such a wonderful group of women, Yes, I Am My Sister's Keeper. I appreciate your knowledge and encouraging words.

Love, peace & blessings in the New Year,

Let Go

Why does it seems so hard to let go? Is it because we get so attached that when it's time to move forward fear consumes us? So we continue to stay connected when we know good-in-well that we should have let go a long time ago. Letting go maybe one of the hardest things for us. We have yet to take full control over these words; "Let Go." It's a difficult decision that one must make when it may cause pain or disappointment.

Letting go can affect us deeply in many different areas of our lives. It may cause one to become violent, outraged or even mentally ill. We have to learn to let go be it a relationship, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend, children, and even if it's the death of a love one.

We have to let God move in our act of letting go, so that He can place us in a state of mind that letting go can give us that peace, joy, understanding, love and strength to know that letting go is a victory.

Letting go is knowing that you have overcome the need to hold on...I Grant you strength & victory to receive the power to LET GO!!!

Blessings,

Single Black Men

I recently read an article about five very single black men giving the low down on the availability of black men, women standards, and putting a ring on it.

Well! Ladies the word is that we need to check our standards. Listen up… The brothers don’t seem to mind a women with standard; but ladies your standards might be a little to high for the brothers. Word is that they are all not ballers. Sista’s y’all seem to want the men with the fancy cars, the big homes, and the executive jobs. Ladies bring it down a little it seems that y’all always turning a brothers down, you don’t compromise, ladies you make the brothers work to hard, and you have that attitude like I deserve this and that, but the brothers are saying; “No, you don’t!”


So my black sista’s, here’s why our brothers are turning to white women because they don’t put as much pressure on the brother like the sista’s. The white women give the brother’s money for whatever need, do their laundry, and get this the white women even let the brothers driver their dad’s Benz…Wow! If I did that my daddy & mama would beat my butt all up and down the City of Chicago streets. White woman are more willing, they compromise, and they are more about the pleasing your man first.


Ladies in order for the brothers to put a ring on it you must stop listening to your girls who either has a bad attitude or don’t even have man at all, and stop being obnoxiously loud or trying to be the center of attention that turns the brothers off. Amp it up in the bedroom be a little nasty, being a little loud doesn't hurt either, also be open to trying new stuff…And ladies the brothers said: Oral is a plus especially if your over 30.

Well! Ladies there you have it. Get it together; sista’s so that the brothers you’re seeing will, in the words of Beyonce…” PUT A RING ON IT.”



…And don’t forget to ShoYoLuv